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Self-love is the new #relationshipgoal

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Self-love is the new #relationshipgoal

Self-love is the most important love of all. It costs nothing, but you gain EVERYTHING! The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the one with YOURSELF! Everyone else may come & go, but that’s who you’ll be spending the rest of your life with…

You need to love yourself enough to take the actions required for your own happiness. When you start loving yourself enough you’ll realize you need to leave unhealthy things behind. Detach from anything or anyone that destroys your inner peace. This isn’t being arrogant or disloyal, its called taking care of yours truly, & it’s absolutely 100% necessary for your recovery!

Drugs, drink, food, people, bad habits, relationships, jobs. Anything that doesn’t serve you, make you happy or help you on your journey of sobriety & staying clean, needs to be kicked to the fucking curb pronto! Always remember you deserve to be healthy & happy…

Listen, self-love isn’t going to happen over night. There were days for a long long time when I had self-loathing, disgust, & anger for the old me, but you have to learn to let it go & move on, or you’ll just keep going round in a vicious circle of self sabotaging behavior. Learn to love who you’ve been, & to love the new you & who you are becoming. Be kind to yourself. An amazing transformation is in process. Trust it…

After hating myself & my body, & abusing substances for years on end, I’m still learning self-love. Its one of the most difficult things I’ve ever done. First things first you’ve got to call yourself on your own bullshit, & give yourself a massive kick up the arse! Doesn’t sound very loving does it?! That’s cause to start with its bloody hard work!

Learn to love yourself so fucking much than when someone treats you wrong, you recognize it…even if the person treating you badly is yourself! At the end of the day that’s the ultimate self-love relationship goal…

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